Ups and Downs

I was going through my friend's blog just now and I find this story touched me; its called the: Relationship bonding.

Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter, "Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand." "What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father. "There's a big difference," replied the little girl. "If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.
So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours.

Someday, I wish that I can find my special one and hold his hands forever besides my dearest family and friends that I have now.

p/s: Girls, now holding hands between us during shopping or what-so-ever means bonding time! =)

MJiun came to me today and told me a sad news that happened to our friend very unexpectedly. Yes, I am never close to her, but still after I read her blog, my fragile heart shattered into pieces and I started crying. No one can ever understand how she and her family felt and feel, and I am not going to ask her how is she because I know its a fact that all of us will take time to cure, or maybe not.
Dear eka, we all know she's in a better and safer place now. I hope one day, you will find your strength back. *hugs* =)

I am really not so fine myself. Too much things happened today. Both sad and happy, but I will manage it soon.